Monday, August 27, 2007

lazyming ends.

Hello my great loyal fans!
Welcome back to read about Saturdays' Random Topic.
Today's topic would be a single word, "Trust".

Have you broken someone's trust before?
Do you think its right to do so?
Did someone betray your trust before?
Do you think its fair to you?

Being trustworthy is somehow an important factor.
Like I said in last week's random post,
"Good Friend",
If you want to be a good friend of someone,
you have to be reliable.
If that someone tells you his/her secret,
its your responsibility to keep it to yourself,
and not leak it out to anyone else.
Why? Because that person trusts you,
you've to repay someone's trust by being trustworthy, isnt it?

Now, think back carefully.
Did someone betray your trust before?
The pain is indescribable.
My trust got betrayed before and I know exactly how it feels.
Not once but many times,
because I am someone that trusts people easily.
If you know how pain it is to get betrayed,
then don't betray someone else.
If you don't know how pain it is,
you don't have the right to betray someone else as well.

Wait a minute, it's not about whether you like/dislike the person.
Even if you dislike the person that told you a secret,
you shouldn't disclose it to someone else either.
Of course, you'll feel happy by doing so,
but you'll leave the person that trusted you so dead.

How much a person can trust another is affected by past experiences.
For example, if my trust is betrayed so many times,
despite it being different people,
it will make me not able to trust anybody anymore.
Once bitten, twice shy?
A promise is a promise,
a secret is a secret,
if promises are meant to be broken,
if secrets are meant to be disclosed,
then why on earth is there this two words, "promise" and "secret".

Some like to gossip,
but please think twice before you leak someone's secret out,
or break's someone's promise.
I bet its a form of trust.
For example again, Boy A treats Boy B's words seriously,
but Boy B doesnt give a fuck about what Boy A says,
Boy B end up telling people everything about Boy A.
Can you imagine how unfair/hurting is it to Boy A?

Alright im getting more and more agitated.
Because of bad experiences.
Shall stop today's topic,
And I am NOT pin-pointing anyone or anything with this post.
Its something random to blog about.
Rest assured, everything is just random.

As usual, you can tag at my tagboard and share with me your experiences.
I'll be a great listening ear :D
Like I've said last Saturday,
I've always tried very hard to be a good friend.
Please start being a good friend to one another.
There will be so much peace.

Weiyee Kh Johnson Mengwee Jasmine Wanwen Yuting.(not in any order)
They're my closest friends at the moment.
I bet they know I've been betrayed before many times.
Now I dare to say I trust all seven of them,
but there will still be a "phobia" of getting betrayed.
I'm sorry.

An old song, Westlife - Fragile Heart.
Read the lyrics and listen to the song :)

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Westlife - Fragile Heart

A fragile heart was broken before
I don't think it could endure another pain
But there's a voice from deep inside of you
That's calling out to make you realize

That this new bond gives inspiration
To all that feel no love appeal no more
So how can I break this wall around you
That's aiding both our hearts to grow in pain

So forget your past and we can dream tomorrow
Save our hearts for care and lovin' too
It's hard, I know, but oh one thing's for sure
Don't go and break this fragile heart.

A hurting mind in need of emotion
I don't think it could endure another pain
But baby in you, I've found affection
Affection I have never felt before

So don't let your past destroy what comes tomorrow
Don't go and break this fragile heart

With all this fire that burns between us
There's so much to lose
Yet so much more to gain
And if I could, choose the world around me
The world I'd choose would all revolve around you
So help me complete the game inside me
And help to mend, to mend this fragile heart.